SAD TRUTH OF LIFE

SAD TRUTH OF LIFE

Please look beyond SAD TRUTH OF LIFE as everything has an end so either the life will end or the sorrow will end... the most easiest way to live is by being happy with what WE HAVE AND NOT WITH WE DONT HAVE.(SAI NATH)


VERY STRONG DETERMINATION : A GOOD CHARACTERISTICS OF WOMENS is that THEY DON’T SPEAK UP ON SERIOUS THINGS BUT ARE MORE DETERMINANT THEN MEN WHILE DOING IT.

GOD BLESS ALL THOSE WHO believe in self to that extent that they believe that they can change their destiny AND MOVE AHEAD TO A PATH WHICH HE/SHE IS UNSURE TO REACH i.e. THE DESIRED BUT UNKNOWN DESTINATION.

Some shorterms or poetic truth of life
1
JINKI KOI MANZIL NAHI, UNKO RASTO KO HI MANZIL BANA CHAHIYE,
Kyonki HAR RASTA ZINDAGI KO SATYA KI CHOR PAR LEJATA HAI…
Jahan se zindagi chut to jati hai, par safar khatam nahi hota hai.

2
AAGE JO RAKHA HAI, WO HI TO ZINDAGI KA RAAZ HAI,
KHUL JAYE TO BHAV (FEELINGS) BAN KAR NIKAL JATA HAI,
CHUP JAYE TO INTAZAR BANKAR SATATA HAI…

3
JAB KHUSHI DARVAJE PAR HO AUR AAPKI NAZAR KISI AUR JAGAH HO,
TO KHUSHIYAN KYA KARE…KITNE PAL TAK KARE AAPKA INTAZAR…
YE WOH HAWA KA JHOKA HAI, JISE KISNE ROK HAI,
JISKI NAZAR PADE USKI HO JATA HAI, PALAK JAPAKTE HI GUZAR JATA HAI.

4
The hidden truth is i.e. SACH TO YE HAI

‘SUN’ IS THE LIGHT THAT WAS CREATED TO REMOVE THE DARKNESS BUT THE FACT IS THAT DARKNESS WAS ALWAYS PRESENT beneath the light and came out once the light moved OUT….

SO THE ONLY WAY TO HAVE LIGHT IS ENLIGHT OURSELF WITH THE TRUTH OF LIFE i.e. DARKNESS IS BENEATH AND HAPPINESS IS THE SELF ENLIGHTMENT WHICH COMES WITH THE ACCEPTANCE OF TRUTH AND THIS REALITY CAN RELIEVE US FROM THE FEAR OF SADNESS AND FEAR OF BEING LOST IN THE DARK WHICH IS NOTHING BUT A TRUTH OF LIFE THAT LIGHT AND DARKNESS BOTH EXIST AND WILL CONTINUE TO EXIST EVEN IF WE DO NOT EXIST.
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TRY OUT any one of below EXAMPLEs TO try out, do YOU control things or the destiny pulls you towards it:-

7 DAYS SCHEDULE
A.
GET UP AT 7AM SHARP DAILY WITHOUT FAIL…. KEEP THE ALARM ON OR DO ANYTHING THAT WILL SURELY WAKE YOU UP AT 7 AM…………. I AM SURE YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO DO IT regularly HOW EVER strong your DETERMINATION MAY BE…

B.
SAY “ I KNOW WHAT I AM AND TODAY I WILL DO WHAT I WANT…………” FOR 10 TIMES ON THE SAME TIME I DID ON THE FIRST DAY ………… I AM SURE YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO continue IT.

C.
TRY TALKING TO 100 PERSON A DAY ATLEAST FOR SEVEN DAYS……………. I AM SURE THERE WILL BE NO CONSISTENCY WHATEVER YOU MAY DO ……….TO ACHIEVE IT………….


THE above are JUST A SIMPLE EXAMPLE to demonstrate how DESTINY CONTROLS YOU AND NOT YOU…………only act accordingly. TO PUT IT POSITIVELY, BELIEVE IN YOU WITH A FIRM BELIEVE THAT THERE IS SOMEONE WHO TAKES CARE OF YOU AND YOU ARE ONLY JUST A TOOL TO EXECUTE HIS WISHES………………. GOOD OR BAD

Paschatap or Guilt

Few Past thoughts ... just pasting it



These are thoughts not a precedence, differs from case to case n person to person n time to time.

The development between two relationship determines the incompatibility which leads to “Paschatap
Examples are there who live happily with the acceptable adjustments but are rare as it requires few but very important factors to not engrave the feeling of “Paschatap”.

1. Complete transparency from the inception of your relationship, immediately after it is conceived in the relationship womb, so that partner can make up his/her mind to continue with the relationship or not? Practical difficult in the above is “You may get only 0.5% people who would accept you as it is so failure to get a good partner would put you in another problem i.e. depression of being left alone and no one to continue the relationship”.

I feel Complete Transparency is the ideal way to start a new relationship in love or marriage and thereafter continue to do so, so that you can trust and be happy with what you have received. Flip side of such transparency is that you may find partners exploiting such feelings and consider you foolish, but then the choice is with us, should we suffer the gulit of unsaid truth or suffer for being good as goodness will certainly bring in good fruits in the existing relationship.

2. Love and Care [ need not be commented as we all taste it, day in and day out]

3. Trust as much as on yourself. [ continuity is difficult but if attained then develops a strong bond and transparency in relationship. This also helps in building the bond and attachment]

4. Destiny [ the nature has mysterious thing hidden in it and what may take you off or bring change in you, we ourself do not know………. But I feel whatever comes in our way, we should take it as it is and live it sincerely and from bottom of our heart,,,, rest will automatically flow………….

I can remember a filmy dialogue of “Om Shanti Om"…..something on this lines “tujhe pane keliye itni siddhat se mohabat ki hai, ki saari kayanat ne mujhe tujh se milane ki sagish ki hai”
[ In short nothing can stop you if destiny wants it to happen, no matter whatever you may do, whatever you may think or whatever any one may do………… nature supports those who become part of it for reasons not known to us but the nature knows it why it is helping…]