My mind blogged

NA YE MERA HAAL HAI, NA KOI SAWAL HAI, BAS KUCH SABDO KA JAAL HAI, JO JAATE-JAATE MEIN BOON GAYA.  Sapne/ khwab nind tutne pe andhero mein kho jate hai,  yaad rahti hai bas kashish UN SAPNO KI, JO pure nahi ho pate hai.  Jo sapno mein jite hai, woh apno se door hote hai, zindagi bhar majboor hote hai, kabhi waqt ko, to kabhi apne naseeb ko koste hai, hakikat mein wo log na jite hai, na jine dete hai.  Agar jine hai tujhe, to hakikat ko apna khwab banale,  manzil ko apna arman banale, jina chahe kitni bhi muskil ho, un mushkilo apna jahan banale,  yaad rakh aai musafir, rasto ko apna manjil banale, manjilo ko modh banale, jab tak tera waqt nahi pura hota, zindagi ko naye rasto pe chala le,  thak jaye jo tera sarir to, atma ke tarang se sarir ko nayee umang dila de, baha le jaye jahan waqt tujhe, usiko jina ka sahara bana le, mushkil ho jaye zindagi agar to ek bar meri mushkilo ko yaad karke use aashan bana le.  khona pana kudhrat ka kanoon hai,  jo sabko pata hai wohi patloon se dhaki hai, Jala le apne dimag ki batti,  kyon ki patjhad ke bina na aati bahar hai, jiska hum kare intazar hai, woh humari zindagi nahi, kisi aur ka shikar hai.  Sathi chahe badal jaye, per zindagi kabhi thamti nahi,  Intazer chahe hum kitna bhi kare, waqt ke sath dhondhli ho jati hai, pyar chahe kitna bhi kum hum kare, waqt ke sath woh ruhani ho jati hai, jo waqt ke sath nahi chalte, zindagi khud unko bhul jati hai, patto pe banaya ghar, hawa ke ek jhoke se hi toot jati hai.      Yar-pyar, khona-pana, milna-bichadna, inkrar-ikrar, farz-karz, jootha-sacha, accha-kharab,etc rup-pratirup hai samajik/saririk/manshik bhavnao ka, jo mahol/waqt/sohaliyat ke sath badalte rehte hai,  kabhi hum inse, to kabhi woh humse, khelti hai,  zindagi bhi waqt ke sath, kya-kya rang dikhati hai.  Pal mein pyar, pal mein vyapar bhi karati hai.  Bhavnao ke is tana-bana mein zindagi kisi bhi kinare rah nahi pati hai. apni aur apno ki khushiyon ko pane ki jasto-jahat mein,  dhool-mithi, gandagi-pasina,etc kab humara hissa ban jati hai,  iska hume pata bhi nahi chalta hai.  Har zindagi ek nirdharit waqt gujarti hai,  aur is bhich kuch naye, to kuch purane rishto ko, tatolti hai, Jaha pyar/apna pan mil jaye, jhoota hi sahi, zindagi gyahri nind so hi leti hai.

Pyari si Bhool

Pyar meri Bhool bani, ya ek Bhool bani mera pyar, sochta hu to mann bolta hai, chahe Bhool se hi.... Per hua to hua mujhe pyar tujhse.

Ankhon mein teri tasvir ho kar bhi, dhondhta huin tujhe har jagha, kyon har pal ye lagta hai ki,tujhe khokar bhi umide hai abhi bhi zinda, ki.... tujhe ab bhi hai pyar mujhse ....

uchi udaan ho lena ya gotha lena ho gayrahiyon mein, mujhsa na milega tujhe, is sare sajahan mein, yehi galfemi ke sath ji rahe the mein, ek ke bad ek kamjor palone ne zinda dafna diya mere hasin pyar ka mahel, ab to khandar huin, bas dah jane ka intazar kar sakta huin, Per.... Kya kare kambaqt koi judha karta hi nahi tujhe mujhse.
budduaye bhi nahi lagti hume kisiki, itne sakth jan ho gaye hai hum, suni ho jaye rahe bhi jo Tumhari, phir unper tera intazar karneki chahat rahegi sada..... Kya pata kabhi to tumhari zindagi mudhkar in rashto se gujhar jaye.
Manta hui ki tere bagair jina mereliye mushkil hai, per usse jadha mushkil hai, tere bagair hasna, rona aur kisi aur ka pyar banjana.

Marriage Anniversaries

Some of the fear factors of married life.
Obsessive Love, special attention & utmost care can damage your married life.... Though in some proportion their presence is also required to sustain your married life.

The Q is how much & in what way?
Difficult to answer as it varies with relationship you enjoy with your partner.
Smart Men can ensure it everytime even if felt or not?
intelligent woman knowingly pretend to feel the love of man & such woman pretend to be flattered by the man's care & attention.
Both are happy to show but reality is there is no true love between the two.

Couples with the above quality have long & successful married life

Dil ki awaj, tera sartaj

Teri chahat ki bhasha jo mujhe aati, to meri har dhadkan tujhe mere dil ka haal sunati.
Aise to kehne ko pyar ki koi bhasha nahi hoti, phir kyon mere aihsas tere samaj mein nahi aati,
Teri chahat pe fana hone ki har koshish rang nahi lati, tuje pane ki har mushakat hakikat ho nahi pati,
Jam chahe hum kitna bhi badal le, par phir bhi tere pyar ka nasha kisi paimane mein utar nahi pati,
Hot surkh hojaye, ya zindagi tham jaye, per teri narajgi humse sahi nahi jati.
hum chahe rahe na rahe, khushiyan teri zindagi mein sitaro ki tarah chamke.
Khudha se bas ek hi gujharish hai, ki tere dil mein mere chahat ki ek chingari to bhadke, tere dil ki ek dhadkan mere naam se bhi dhadke.
Phir chahe usko pane ke bad, meri zindagi mein koi dhadkan hi na bache.

HVD - Happy Valentine Day

Pyar ke tevhar hai, VD,
Dhadakte dilo ka arman hai, VD,
Bite hua kal ki khusboo hai, VD
naye sapno ko dekhne ka din hai, VD
Adhure sapne ko zindagi banane ka aihsas hai, VD
Bikhri hue zindagi ko sametna ka din hai, VD
Mera V aisa hai, mera V waisa hai, mere V jaisa koi nahi, mere dil mein hai V. Mera V hi mera dil hai, kya kahu mein apne V ke bare mein, us jaisa koi sansar mein nahi.

mere dil ki dhadkan hai V, meri har khushi ka rang hai V, meri adhuri zindagi ka arman hai V. Kaise batao mere liye kya hai V.

Mein rahu na rahu, mera V rahe sada, yehi dua mangte hai hum Khudha se.
mera V mujhe chahe ya na chahe, meri chahat kabhi na ho kam yehi chahate hai hum khudha se.

mein agar akar hu, to woh meri chitrakar hai.
mein agar badan hu, to woh meri jaan hai.
Mein agar dard hu, to woh meri khushiyon ki dukan hai.
Mein agar andhera hu, to woh mujme basi aag hai,

Meri har dard ki chabi hai uski boli,
Woh mere liye Khudha ki ibadat, uska didar, mere jine ki aadat.

Dil ka kasoor itna hai ki, dhadkane ke bajaye bhatakne ka kaam kiya,
Ankhon ka kasoor itna hai ki, dekhne ke bajaye matakne ka kaam kiya.
Zindagi ka kasoor itna hai ki, Apne liye jine ke bajaye tere liye jine ka kaam kiya.

To be continued.... Forever .... Kyoin khwashiyon ko koi dor bandh nahi sakti, pyar ko koi nap nahi sakta, Tum mere liye kya ho, in sabdo ko jodhkar bhi kah nahi sakta.

Ye Jante hua bhi, ki tumhe ye sari baate rijha na payega, phir bhi ye dil naakaam koshish karta jayega, kyonki isse jada ye diwana kuch kar bhi na payega.

Zindagi hai ye kya

Puchte hai log humse zindagi hai kya,
Kehte hai hum sabhi se, hume kya pata,
Kaihno ko to, Jite hai hum, her pal mein kai janam, to kaise kaihe zindagi hai kya.

Manzil na pata ho to bhi, chalte rahe hum,
na umid pe jiye, na kisi ke dam per,
Apne liye mushkile aati hai, har kadam per,
Koi sath de na de, jiya karenge hum.

Jante hai hum bhi.... , ki, kabhi na kabhi to, milegi manzil hume,
Per phir bhi kyon bhatak jate hai hum, rah chalte-chalte,
Sabhi ko hai Yakin ki mohabat ke bina chal na paye gi zindagi,
Per phir bhi Puchte hai, mohabat kya hoti hai,
Kaise bataye inko hum, jo na samaj mein aaye, mohabat hai wo patang,
Dor chahe kitni bhi kaske pakdo Tum,
Kat jane per, hawa le jayegi use.... nayi manzil per,
khushiyan phir se milengi, badli huyi patang se

Samjta nahi tujhe

Samjta nahi tujhe, phir bhi pyar karta hui tujhe,
Janta nahi apni manzil to kya, tere rasta ko apni manzil samajta hui mein.
Tu sath ho ya na ho, har pal tere naam ko dil mein basaye phirta hui mein.
Dard tujhe na ho, is koshish mein jab bhi nakaam hota hui, tut jata hui mein, per phir bhi dusre hi pal phir se koshish karta hui rehta hui mein.

Tere pyar ke boondho ki umid mein jita hui mein,
Tere har khwab mein apne aap ko dekhna chahata hui mein.

Tere aatoot pyar ki, asimit aagan ko, is dil ke gagan per chaya hui dekhna chahata hui mein
Tere har pyar ki boondho ko, apne zindagi mein anandmay hokar jina chahata hui mein.

Nasib mein kya hai, mein nahi Janta per zindagi mein bas tu hai aur tu hai, yehi Kehno chahata hui mein.

Bin bole bhi, tere liye hi sochta hui mein.
Tu mane ya na mane, dil se tere liye dua hi nikalti hai, phir chahe tu apnaye ya na apnaye mujhe.

Kis bat ka hai gam kis bat ki khushi

Kis bat ka hai gam kis bat ki khushi
Nazro mein tere jab badle nahi hum,
Saya banu tera, ya chodh du tujhe azaad,
Ai dil tuhi bata kya karu mein, ki woh reh na sake mujhse judha,
Kya kahu mein, ki woh ho jaye meri sada.
Kya karu bata, ki samjhe wo meri dil ki vyatha.

Relationship

Relationship can make money but money cannot make relationship

Woman loves her family the most but the family loves women like ost

Man is happy when he is in love but a woman makes the man feel happy when she is in love

Love someone who loves you otherwise you will have fear & tears in your whole life.

Life changes when a man is in love but woman only changes the style when she is in love

love is not what was made to be believed but that we felt in a relationship.

No relationship lives forever but our true feelings never die.

Every person has a wing on his soul to fly but cannot fly because we forget to off load our unlimited demands & wishes.

Someone said

Tune mujhe apni ashique ke layek na samjha,
varna hum bhi ashiq bemishal bante,
Her pal ki koshish,
Ki teri chahat ke haqdar bante,
per bhool gaya tha mein,
rishte to, itbar se hai bante.

Dosti ki har bati ko, bhujha kar bhi,
ek umid ki roshini ka, intazar hai karte.

Kitna nasamaj,
kitna nadan hu banta,
kar ke nasukra galtiya,
shahjahan hui banta.

Mohabat ki,
teri adaon se,
teri sarafat se,
teri bewakofiyon se,
Per naam diya use dil ka rishta.

Aajjab hai, ye pyar ki dastan,
har gali mein, badnam kiya tujhe,
per phir bhi, unhi galiyon mein,
dewano ki tarah dhoondhata raha tujhe.

Pyar kya hota hai,
Ye jaane bagayer hi,
Pyar ka dawa kar baitha,
Tere dil ka hal jaane bagayer hi,
Apna hal suna baitha mein,
Teri majboori ko, apne rishte ki manjoori samaj baitha.

Bahut khushnaseeb hote hai,
Jinhe pyar hota hai,
Usme gujhare her pal,
Iman se,
Badlo pe sone jaisa hota hai,
Her chiz kudhrat ka nayab karishma lagta hai,
Rooh ko sukun mile,
Aisa lamha, her pal zindagi ke saath chalne lagta hai,
Na samaj aaye,
Aisi taqat tujhe samale rakhti hai.

Pyar mein barso, pal mein gujhar jate hai,
Har koi, sacha nazar aata hai,
Kudha bhi, sayad, ibadat ke liye,
Mohabat karne wale rooho ko hi,
Apni rehmat ke liye Chunta hai.

Aa aab laut chale,
Ye Rooh meri mujhe kehti hai,
Mein moh-maya ke bandhan,
Talta rehta hui,
Ye jante hui bhi, Ki meri rashto mein,
Mujhe akele hi chalna hai,
Kyon ki, Jo apna laga
Woh mila nahi,
Jisne mujhe paya,
Mein use saath lekar chal na paya,
Jo mere saath chalte rahe,
Unke saath chalkar bhi,
Unhe apni pyar ki astha mein,
Samil na kar paya.

Sach kaha hai kisine,
Zindagi ek adhoora rasta hai,
Manzil ka bhrahm hota hai,
Per rasta kabhi, khatam nahi hota hai.

Ye ek soch hai, pal ki sachayee hai, per puri zindagi nahi,
Hasin hai, per khwabo ki haqeqat se anjhuyee nahi.

Pyar

Dil mein pyar ho to ikrar ki zaroorat nahi, pyar ko dil mein basane ke liye.
insan mein himmat ho to, rasto ki zaroorat nahi, manzil pane ke liye

Pyar agar phool hota, to apne bagh mein laga lete,
Pyar agar khoosboh hota, botal mein band kar leta,
Sach kahu pyar kya hota kisi ko khabar nahi, Per itna sabhi jante hai ki jise ho jaye woh chah kar bhi kisi ka nahi ho pata hai.
Ye woh aihsas hai, jo jise chu le, woh kudhrat ka hissa ho jata hai, dard aur khushi dono ek sath bas jati hai.
Duniya ko pyar karnewala nazar aata hai, per unhe duniyawale nahi.
Dhadkan aur sase dono chalti rahti hai, per mastish chalna band kar deta hai
Kehno ko Bahut kuch hai, per... Sunne ke liye koi nahi

Friendship day

No feeling is as special as our friendship
No relation is as special as our friendship
every thing that starts with life & ends with death is our friendship
No one can understand so much difficult is our friendship
There is no maths no logic to give result to our friendship

Some answers we know & move in our own lifes but the unanswered question is our friendship

Unmatched in choice & matchless in love, still being with other because of friendship
careless in life, share less in life but still continue smoothly such is our friendship

Many ambition & endless dreams make us different but we hang for atleast one moment in day for each other such is our friendship

There is space for anyone's love or care as there is too much space for each other such is our friendship

You have short of words to express but I have express so much that life is shorter than what I have expressed

We are opposite in believe but together which no one believes

Bhool or phool

Pyar ke phool ki umid mein sari jawani banjar zameen shichta raha,
Dard ke bhawandar mein tere haatho ko apne bachne ki umid manta raha

Tujhe phoolo pe rakhkar khud kato pe chalta raha, is umid mein ki kabhi to teri nigah padegi is taraf, aur tu apne sath hume le legi,
Nasib ki mar se nawakif tha, isliye bhool kar baitha,
Sari umide tere sang chalne ki kho baitha,
Aab to woh phool huin jo mandir ke bajaye, vasna mein lipt bhool karne walo ke haatho mein sajtha huin.

Ek bhool kaise phool ki manzil badal deta hai, yeh mujhse bhaiter kaun samaj payega.

Mere Nasib mein khoosboh ho na ho, per teri zindagi mein phoolo ki bahar zaroor aaye, yehi prathna har bar karta huin.

Dil - Dohe

Ankho ke ek bar ke dosh ke liye,
Dil ko zindagi bhar sehna padta hai

Pyar mein Bimar dimag hota hai
Per dil ko dosh dena padta hai,

Pyar ki rah mein, aag ka dariya premi to par kar jate hai,
Per prem ki thandi aah se, toot kar bikhar jana padta hai,

Man aur Manzil ke bhich ki jung mein,
Zindagi ko lahoo lohan hona padta hai.

Soch chahe kitni bhi purani ho,
sapno ko to in ankhon mein hi panapna padta hai.

Dil pe dastak, chahe pyari ankhen kare, ya mithi jaban kare,
per akhir mein, dard ka aihsas hi de jata hai.

Pyar chahe hum, unse gujharish karke kare, ya apni deewangi dikha ke kare, 
ya unko hasin sapno mein dooba kar kare, ya unke nakhre ootah kar kare, 
per akhirkar, har haal me apne dil ke aage jukhna hi padta hai.

Har bar khone per, ya rone per, kyon dil ki baat samaj mein aati hai,
pyar mein gujhari her baat, kyon aankhe nam kar jati hai

Woh hume bhool jayenge, ye baat to samaj mein aati hai,
Per zindagi ke hasin pal bhool jaye, ye baat samaj mein nahi aati,

Pyar mein, zahar bhi madh ki tarah lagta hai,
Marte marte bhi, band hoti har ek dhakhan, 
Dard dene wale dushman ko bhi dua deti jaati hai,

Sach kaha hai kisine, dil ka rog hai bura,
Haadh se jadha jise ho jaye woh, to apno ko bhi ghootan de jaati hai,
Chu kar nikal jaye jo woh kisiko to, zindagi ko sukkhi dali ki tarah jalati hai.

Jis tarah se...Nadiya ko, kinare bandhe rakhti hai,
ussi tarah se...mohabat ko, apno ke sahare bandha ja sakta hai,

Jis tarah se....Khuli sarab or khula sabab, dono ko dakhna zarrori hai
ussi tarah se... ashique aur maushique, dono ko chupana zarrori hai,
Kyon ki is ke khul jaane ke baad, in bimaro/nigodo ko rokna mushkil hai.

Pyar ka dil mein hona, komalta ki nishani hai,
Pyar dil mein ho kar bhi, na pana, bikhari hui zindagi ki nishani hai,
Pyar dil mein ho kar bhi, kho dena, badkismati ki kahani hai,
Na samjhe jo pyar ko, dil uska pathar ki nishani hai.

Ankhon mein basne wale

Ankhon hi Ankhon mein ho jaye aisa pyar hota hai kaha.
Dhadkan apne dil ki, kisi aur ke dil se sunayee de, aisa pyar hota hai kahan
Khwab char naino ki ek hojaye, aisa pyar hota hai kaha.
man se man ki baat ho jaye, aisa pyar hota hai kaha

Bin kahe, ankhen jab bolne lag jaye,
bin palke bandh kiye, jab woh nazar aane lag jaye,
Bin mile, man na lage,
Bin sune, bechaini badne lage,
uske didar ki umid mein, jab subah ka intazar hone lage,
uski hansi, kano mein ras gholne lage,
Uske Chehre ki khushi, apne jine ki wajah banne lage,
Zindagi mein bin visa ke hi, rehne lage,
Har rah, jisper mein chalta tha, Aaj uske bagayer suni lage,

To samaj lena woh ankhon mein basne lage,

To samaj lena pyar hadh se jaada hone lage... Hone.... lage ha ..hone lage

Love express

The world is changing so is the culture, values & expectation from a relationship is also changing

Today the meaning of love in my experience has undergone a drastic change

Modern Love is an expression of free, unbounded & unsoulful emotions between 2 persons, not necessarily between opposite gender or similar age group, that can exchange/share theirs emotions for that moment or until it subsists or survives with exchange/sharing with the same person or till such expressions results into satisfaction of achievement of materialistic or practically beneficial returns.
Vis-a-vis
Love which was for bonded relationship with a soulful emotions for opposite gender with NO knowledge of materialistic REASONS.

The modern love in its materialistic form existed, partly or wholly, in the past too but was not free, open & acceptable to society values.

Today we talk about or move in living relationships so comfortably & ignore the destructive characteristic of such relationship where bonding, respect & morality has lost its value.

The change in culture & moral values are inevitable & true & long bonded emotions are replaced by realistic & practicality which can change with circumstances so ultimately the relationship in future will add characteristic of flexibility, dynamic & freedom which eradicate the psychological illness infused due to strong & passionate love.

We may miss the love stories that we heard as they would not be relevant & necessary when person would want live with other for the time they can bear or live together

thanks bhi kabhi Zaroori hota hai

Farz pura kiya apna, to kya hua sila na mila uska
Dard thoda hua, jab koi 'thanks' bolne ke bajaye inquiry karne laga.

apne nukhsan ke dar se, insaan bokhla kyon jata.
Barosa kyon dagmaga jata hai,
Jab ki ye jante hua bhi ki karne wala dil se chahata hai,
acha-bura, nafa-nukhsan, sach-jhoot bhi pehchanta hai.
Kya hai, jo woh kho dega jab ye janta hai ki, milta utna hai jitna likha hai,
todta bhi wahi hai jo jodta hai.
Mod to bas aajate hai, rasta chahe Kitna bhi sidha hum chune.

Dil ki suno yehi kehta raha mein hamesha, per dard hi paya har bar humne is per chalkar. Phir umid nahi jhoda meine, kyon ki dard aur khushi dono mere apne aur kisi ek se nahi kar sakta mein pyar ya tiraskar.

shor gul mein vyasth logo ke liye, man ke kaan se dil ko sunna mushkil hai, per dil walo ke liye har mahol mein use sunna mumkin hai.

Bade nadan ho tum

Bade nadan ho tum,
Meri jaan ho tum
Kya kahu tumse, kyon ki mere dil ka arman ho tum,

Koi kehta hai, pyar nahi tumhe humse,
Jarroot ke hai ye rishte, ye Mohabat, ye kashish humme
Nadan hai woh jo na samje Mohabat ko apne.
Kya jodhe hai hume, ye kaise samjhenge woh,
Jinke Sine mein Mohabat hi nahi,
Kya kahe unke bare mein, jo badle hai

Sanjog ke rishte

Jin se bhi jooda rishta humara atoot,
Kismat ne mari dhokar itna achuk, ki rishta vahi gaya pehle toot.
Zindagi ne diya itna dard, ki har kisi ko laga mein huin bedard.

Badi koshish ki humne, apne shoonya mein tumhare aakdo ko jodne ki, per har bar gunkar ya bhagakar hi kar paya,
khoya itna ki, Aab zindagi mein shoonya se jaada kuch nazar na aaya.

The beauty of life is that its starts & also ends. We may have no choice when we are born crying but we certainly have choice to go smiling when we leave this world.

Kabhi dat achchi lagti hai

Tere apne pan ki, adat to nahi hai,
Per jab bhi apne pan se dati hai, to bada achcha lagta hai.

Teri chahat mein mer jaane ka, jasba ho kar bhi,
tere liye kuch na kar pane se nind nahi aati,

Yeh andhere jaise, tere khayalo se nikalne ki ijajat nahi dete hai,
Ye palke jaise, bandh hone se katrati hai,
Sarir aur man ki jung mein, haar har bar Sarir ki ho jati,
Thakkar chur hone ke baad hi nind aati hai.
mere man per lagam lagane ke liye, tere dadtna bhi bada achcha lagta hai.

Teri mushkan pe mar jau, itna pyar karte hai hum,
Teri narajgi se kudh per naraz hota hui, teri dilagi ko bhi pyar samjhta hui, itna pyar karte hai hum
Teri khushi se khush hota hui, tere gum pe rota huin, itna pyar karta huin mein.
Teri ahat ko, pyar ki jhankar samjhta hui, teri dhadkano ko kudha ke ibadat ka ajan samjhta hui,
Jab kabhi tu aawaj deti hai, mein sara kaam ek tarah jodhkar, tujh se milne ke liye, har modh, har rishto ko piche jhod deta hui, itna pyar karta huin mein.
In sab bandhisho ke baad jab tera didar hota hai, to kabhi apke pehnave, to kabhi apki dooriya, kaate ban kar chubhti hai, per phir bhi tere saath chalta hui, kyonki teri baato se hi meri saase chalta hai, itna pyar karta huin mein

Didar

jabse hua didar tera, zindagi se hua anjaan mein,
Pal pal mein badalte jaye, haal mera,
Kabhi milna, to kabhi bhoolna chahu tujhe,
Kabhi marna to kabhi tere liye jina chahu mein.

Mushkil ho raha hai,
sasoan ka dil tak pahuchna,
aasoan ka ankho mein rokhna,
hoto ka bolne ke liye khulna,
dhadkano ka dil me chalna,
yaado ko tere khilaf karna,
man ko kabu mein karna,
Kaise aur kis kis ko samjau mein,
jab har ang tere didar ka intazar karna chahata hai.

Kabhi ankhen tujhe dulhan ke jode mein dekhti hai, to dil tujhe phoolo mein haste hua dekhta hai, kabhi ye hoat, to kabhi tere gal, har ang mujhse kuch kehta hai.
Kaise karu bayan mein apne dil ka haal jab tere intazar meri dhadkano ka bhi hai bura haal.
kis kis ko samjaun mein, jab har ang tere didar ka intazar karna chahata hai.

Sochta hui, jab tere didar Ke intazar mein ye hal hai. to, kya hoga mera hal, jab tujhe mujhse Mohabat ho jayegi.

return gift

Jab Dil se payee diwali gift,
Laga jaise, upparwale ne kar diya meri khushiyon ko shift,
Aab bas gam hi rehgaya zindagi mein fit,
kyon ki denewale ne return kiya mera hi dil, karke wrap as a gift.

Kisiki khushiyon ki arthi pe diye jale,
Kisiki khushiyon ne liya naya mod kyon asani se kar diya mujhko apne dil ke liye unfit,
Hum to lut gaya aur kisi ko pata bhi na chala,
Dard itna hua ki, ki koi mar kar bhi bardast na kar payaga,
Chot Sarir pe hota to dard ka malham laga lete, per atma pe lage Chot per konsa malham lagaye.

Koi jaan se gaya, koi iman se gaya, hum to tere dil aur zindagi se hi gaye.
Aab chahat meri kya, tere liye maine rakhti hai, jab tere liye ek naam se jada mein kuch nahi.

Sach yehi hai, meri majboori tujhe sahni padti hai,
Meri doori se tera koi sarokar nahi,

Mein woh hawa ka jhokha huin, jo bin mange teri gali mein tham gaya,
Pyar ki umid mein, teri mithi baato mein ulaj gaya,
Rasto ne kai bar kaha, yaha tere liye pyar nahi, per mein khudko tera samaj baitha.

Sach kaha hai kisine, pyar ho jasba hai jisme koi jasbad nahi tikte,
Zindagi woh sabak hai, jo zindago ko samaj mein nahi aata.

maan-sammaan

Sab jankar bhi koi anjaan bane, to kaise mane unhe nadan,
Dard de kar bhi koi humper kare aihsan, aiso ko kaise kahe hum insaan.

Humare pyar ko samaj kar bhi diya use pasand ka naam,
Khudko zimmedari se bachane ke liya, kar diya dusro ka balidhan, aiso ko kaise de do mein apna atmasamman.

Mana, pyar jine ke liye jarroori hai, per bin uske kabule kaise mein rahu dilshan.
Barso Sath rehkar bhi, sirf reh gaye tere zindagi mein ek naam, na kabhi tera khwab bana, na bana teri jaan, na kabhi tera arman, na kabhi tera samman, kaise sahu ye apman.

Relationship can make money

but money cannot make relationship

Woman loves her family the most

but the family loves women like ost

Man is happy when he is in love

but a woman makes the man feel happy when she is in love

Love someone who loves you

otherwise you will have fear & tears in your whole life.

Life changes, when a man is in love

but woman only changes the style when she is in love

Love is not what was made to be believed

but Love is what we felt while living in a relationship.

No relationship lives forever

but our true feelings never die.

Every person has a wing on his soul to fly

but cannot fly because we forget to off load our unlimited demands & wishes

Secrets of nature in our life

I believe in astrology and homeopathy, for that matter in all the sciences that are based on logics, with or without any hypothesis.

I believe that in every human being, besides the soul, has proportion of each “Tatva” i.e earth, water, fire & air in it, quantum and quality may vary based on the location you belong or were born. These elements of Tatva in you absorb the energy i.e positive, neutral & negative, and neutralizes in our body to increase immunity or power and sometimes to stabilize them within us.

Astrology also calculates on location coordinates of your birth. In my view, the reason could be hidden in the natural growth process as I have tried to show in the below example.

When the seed is earthen, the earth protects it from all the energy in addition to its self protection cocoon but still ensures to reach the right amount of food to the seed. In some form sterilizes the intake before it reaches to the seed. Here also there is limitation, the lands internal capacity to sterilize thing and hence we see that certain kind of farming can only be done in certain type of land and not in any other place. To be in the present topic of astrology, let me connect it with regional farm products or plantation or any characteristics typically representing a region or geography, in terms of its quantity or quality or availability eg Tea, Rubber plant, dry fruits and so on.

Similarly, every child in womb of mother gets sterilized intakes and sufficient protection that the women by nature can give within its own limitation of its immunity or ability to prepare food. But when a child is born, then it is for the first time the Tatva of the new born comes in direct contact with the ether (i.e. atmosphere). It absorbs the most of the energy available in the ether at that time and then continues to absorb thereafter while he/she grows and makes its internal Tatva stronger to extent of sterilization is done by the body. This is the reason why persons at each locations share almost the same physical characteristics but due to change of time, varies with the proportion of each of the Tatva, making them different and sometimes unique too.

The ether is made of composition of rays of energy that are emitted/reflected by the Planets and Stars or absorbed/sterilized by the planets or moon at each geographical zone within a particular range of location coordinates. My believe is that stars only emit hence they are source of increasing energy in the solar system whereas Planets and Moon, have a role to play by absorbing or reflecting back the excess energy, to extent it can do so.

While we all know elementary astrology, can be expressed based on (a) Location and (b) Time. The difficult calculation is of the time (i.e. birth date and birth time), which determines the position of the Planet, Stars, Moon and finally the earth. This positions determines the impact of the ether created at that time and physical and mental characteristics to which you would belong to, which are generally categorized as “Rashi” or “Sun Signs”.

The inheritance or hereditary or genetic characteristics are passed from our natural parents and the impact depends upon the immunity/ability in the women to sterilize / filter / pass on, as the case may be, at the time of intercourse or subsequently with the kind of experience that she goes through or absorbs becomes the intake of the child in the womb, at even very early stage.
Hence true astrologer goes beyond the elementary astrology and works on other aspects that can impact the person, which also includes knowing the birth location and time of the below:-
(a) Parents , (b) Children (c) Spouse and to get more confirmed calculation even of Forefathers.

The other aspects, also includes the present location of planets and the person. It’s impact on him. The symptoms of extreme cases where increase of any Tatva beyond its immunity or susceptibility level, are easily identifiable symptoms. Example when the land becomes barren then it cannot hold water and hence there is no growth of life. Similarly, when Tatva of earth in us turns barren then water that we drink cannot hold in us, through the normal manner.
Coming back to Homeopathy, as the larger portion of the internal system is meant of Water and as the drugs dilute in waters hence it can cover the larger portion of the body curing it from root.

Ayurvedic medicines, largely meant of roots or plants or flowers or seeds, cannot dilute completely in water molecules hence its impact on water areas are lesser than the earthy areas of the body.

Yoga medication helps healing through “vayu” i.e. air components of the body and hence stronger on the areas where air can travel in the body and as the body functioning is largely dependent on the pressure system, where well balance air pressure can do miracles, mostly through the vacuums, and nerves in our body.

The component of fire, in us works to ignite or keep the acid in us to ensure any intake are converted into energy, without measuring or differentiating the kind of energy that emits due to burning process in us of the intake, hence what we eat decides the proportion of the energy that we will switch to.

The modern medicines (“allopathic”) are hybrid result of all the kind of medicines, involving scientific study of disease through analytical study of symptoms and reaction of medicine by each body though in medical terms are expected to react in the same manner unless there are undiagnosed disease.

To speak in terms of Tatva, Allopathic medicine largely depends upon the igniting components of the body (i.e. acid, in other words depends on ‘fire’ Tatva more), without differentiating the impact of the medicine on the living cell eg. When there is fire in the jungle, it only destroys till the area it can destroy with help of fumes created by air and supported by flammable components grown with the help of Earth and water. It does differentiate between nature’s friendly or malicious livings and in no time turns them into ashes. Its result is very fast and hence Allopathic medicine increases acidity and kills the present malicious cells or virus infected cells within its flammable range leaving some possibility of it coming again or we suffering with other disease in the form of side effects or allergies.

Though not an expert to talk about it but thought to give a summarized view of secrets of nature connecting it with astrology & medicines. Ignore the clericial errors and enjoy the thoughts herein.

Kehte hai her dhadkan mein, ek naya sur hota hai

Kehte hai her dhadkan mein, ek naya sur hota hai,
Per use sunne ke liye apne dil ko samajna zaroori hai,

Zindagi kitni bhi adhoori ho, pyar usme sada basta hai,
Jo dusro ke pyar ko samjte hai, dard bhi unke chehre per smita lati hai.
Nisha chahe kitna bhi andhera kyon na failaye, deepa ko roshni apni baati(kamjoriyon) ko jalane (qurbani) per hi mil pati hai.

Kho ker kuch pana aur kuch pa kar kuch khona,
zindagi ka atoot niyam hai,
har chijh ka apna samay aur apna mol hai,
Kisi ke liye roti, to kisi ke liye makan ka sukh anmol hai,
koi mehlo mein rehkar bhi, pyar ke liye tarasta hai,
koi pyar mein naha kar bhi, pyasa rah jata hai,
sari duniya kadmo mein ho kar bhi,
pyar ke liye koi romeo, to koi farhad, to koi majnu banjata hai."

Power of Words

"
Words have power of the mind
and
few have control over mind.

If you can master the power of words,
then same can turn into swords,
that can kill millions or
win million hearts
in a single punch line.

"

Best example are Hitler and Gandhi, even after their contrast personalities.

Love Story of a Statue - Murthy - Part II

Murthy mein dard aur pyar ka sagar tha bhara,
uski saundaryeta ki thi apni ek vyatha,
na socha tha kabhi ki is nikhri hui murthy ki bhi apni hi hogi ek katha,
jane anjane mein, uski saundaryeta hi bani uske liye saja,
Murthikar ne, na sirf murthy ko tarasa tha apni kalpana se,
per usko diya tha aisa rup jo woh na thi,
rup uska nikhar to aaya tha auro ki nazar mein,
Nikharne ki pratha mein, jo ghav murthy ne sahe the,
woh murthy ke aatma mein dard bankar chupe the,
mere chute hi, toot ke bikhar gayee woh,
Na mein samjh paya, na uske apne pyar ne,
dard itna gayrah tha, ki siskiya sunli bejan dewaro ne.

Murthy ke ashim pyar ki,
Muthikar ke ikrar ki,
aur aatma pe lage ghav ki,
gawahi de rahe thi pas mein pade auzar bhi.
Jane anjane mein Murthikar ki kalpana per kisi aur ka hogaya tha vas,
badle hua rup ne murthy ko kar diya tha niswas,
dam ghoot raha tha uska, kyonki uske pyar ne hi kiya tha use be-awaj.

Na chapi thi ye baat kisi akbar mein,
na suni thi uske Apne pyar ne,
rahgir ki tarah tha mein bhatak raha,
anjane mein sunli meine ye bate auzar se.

Puchne pe pata chala,
auzar ne suni thi murthy ke dard ki siskiya murthikar ke har ghav pe,
Dard is bat ka na tha, ki auzoron se chot lag rahi thi use,
Dard to is bat ka tha, ki Murthy ko nikharne ki junoon mein,
use gav denewala uska apna pyar tha,
kaise kahoon woh aur koi nahi, uska murthikar tha.

Har var per, Sehne ki shakti usko kaha se mili sochte the auzar bhi,
per Aaj samjh mein aaya hai unhe,
ki uski shanshilta chupi thi uski ashim pyar mein,
Murthy anjan na thi is haqeqat se,
ki murthikar ki nazaro mein woh kai rachnao mein se, bas ek rachna thi,
Sansar mein chupi hui uski kayee kalpanao mein se, ek kalpana thi,
jiska mol lag chuka tha, usko kharidhne wala aur koi nahi, mein tha.

hum pyar ka dawa karte rah gaye, per woh pyar karti chali gayee
Hum kehte rah gaye, woh bin kahe sahti chali gayee
Ye bat Murthikar ko kon bataye!
murthy ke dil ka hal kholkar, Murthikar ko kon samjaye,
yehi bat mere dil ko khaye ja rahi thi, Ki itne mein murthikar khud rote-bikhlate aaya, apne pijhle janam ke adhore pyar ka abhi-abhi use aihsas hua tha,
Woh ye jaan gaya tha, murthy uski ek kalpana nahi, uska adhoora pyar tha,
Is aihsas se, murthy mein jeevan ka vas hua,
sarmate hua ho, murthikar ke gale lag gayee,
is bat se dang aur khush hogaya murthikar,
per pal bhar mein, Uske chahre per kuch pane ki khushi aur kuch khone ka gum, dono hi ek sath chalak aaya.
Kaise kehta woh, us intezar ki murthy se, janmo ki pyasi uske pyar ko,
ki uski zindagi mein kisi aur ne kar liya tha basera,
Pyar murthy ka phir ek bar reh janewala tha adoora.

Ye bat na jane kyon mere dil ko de rahi thi sukun
Sayyad, mujhe bhi hogaya tha pyar usse,
door.. koi kiran mere sapne ko umid ki hawa de rahi thi,
aisa laga jaise kainat bhi meri khwaesoh ko pura karne mein lagi thi,
kaise door reh sakta tha, apne hi murthy se,
Kaise dekh sakta tha, use kisi aur ka hote dekhkar.


Murthy ko murthikar ki vyatha samaj mein aa gayee thi,
phir ek bar, uska pyar dafan hone ko tha,
Uska intazar ab ek janam aur rone ko tha,
Woh puchti rahi kudha se, jab intazar tha aur baki,
kyon dali jaan mujme? kyon diya aihsas mujhe?
yehi kehte hue, woh meri taraf doli, pas aakar boli;

"tum jite! mein hari!
bhujalo apni har pyas ko!!
kar do mujhe niswas!!
mar do mere har aihsas ko!!
itna kar mujhpar var!!
ki toot kar phir na jood paoo mein aaj!!"

Uski ye bat kar gayee ghayal mujhe,
na samji thi woh mujhe, is bat ka hogaya tha mujhe aihsas,
Kaise samjatha use, vasna ke adhin na tha mera aihsas uske liye,
Mera dil pakh hokar bhi, use bhog-vilas ka aihsas dilata tha,
Kaise samjata use ki, meri nazar uske sarmasar badan mein na thi gadi,
per mera pyar uske dard mein itna tha dooba,
mujhe is bat aihsas kabhi hua hi nahi, ki sarmasar ho rahi thi woh kabhi,
jo khojhta tha mein har gali,
sab kuch kyon khudha ne tujmein hi bhari,
na samaj pa raha tha, ishara kudha ka,
isliye kabhi na thi, nazre meri tujhper se hati.

Jis bat ko mein khudh bhi na samjh saka tha,
use mein apni jaban se kaise use samjata,
bat dil ki thi, uski manjoori ki thi,
chukar use apne baho mein kaise bhar leta.

Uske katile sabdo ne, mujhe stamb kar diya,
jine ka aihsas mujhme jo tha, use dafna kar diya,
ab to bas maut ka intazar kar sakta tha,
ki ek choti si khushbhu aaye, khoshiyon ki lehar de gayee is nirjiv man ko,
"pyar se badkar sansar hai" ye bat fus-fusa gaye mere kano mein.

Is janam, mein uska ho saku, ye mumkin nahi,
per usko, uske pyar ka kar saku itna to mere hath mein tha,
Mila mein murthikar ke is janam ke pyar se,
dilaya aihsas use, murthy ke janmo ke intazar ka,
murthy ke is asim intazar ka, unke pakh pyar ka,
sunkar jise, ankhen uski nam hogaye,
usne bhi liya ek pran, mila kar rahegi unhe,
chahe badalna pade use murthikar ka man,
is pran se hokar magan kah gaya mein use,
tere mere qurbani se ho sakta unka milan,
woh 'has' kar boli, qurbani ki kya jaroorat nahi,
pyar se jab ho sakta hai milan,
samaj na saka mien uska man,
sochta raha kaise hoga pyar se pura uska pran,
soch meri her pehloon ko nap-tol rahi thi,
ki usne keh di aisi bat jisse mein hogaya stamb,
'karoge sadi mujhse',
'raho gaye mere sang is janam',
'kyon ki, intazar to aise bhi karna hoga humko agle janam tak',
'to kyon vyarth jane de hum is janam ko,'

Bat mein uske samarpan tha, samajdhari thi,
dono ko tha adhoore pyar ke dard ka aihsas,
Is milan se, murthy aur murthikar bhi ho sakta the ek,
Humare sansarik bandhano se ho sakta tha, unka sampoorn milan.

Bat khatma hui, khatma hua muthy ka intazar,
milan ki bela aaye, khile phool humare bhi sansar mein,
kon kar raha hai kiska intazar, hum sab bhool gaye,
na aab tha kisi kaynat ka ishara,
na thi bhookh pyar ki,
pyas jo bhi thi dabi humme,
behne lagi thi banke ek nadi ki dhara,
Waqt kaha baha legaya hume,
hume thi na khabar,
per kabhi-kabhi ek hawa ka jhoka, yad dilata hume apne adhore pyar ki,
umid kahi na kahi thi humme,
ki waqt hume bhi milayega apne-apne pyar se.

Black and White Love

on the day of Rangpanchmi, i am expressing black and white love...

Tere man ka hal janu hua mein,
Kehne ko to tu chahe hai mujhe,
Per mujhse jada tere andhaje pe yakin hai tujhe,
Zinda hu is bat ka gam hai mujhe.

Teri chahat ka diwana hu mein, chahe tu mane ya na mane,
zinda hu teri hi khatir, chahe tu mane ya na mane.

Door apni Duniya mein le jana chahta hu tujhe,
Ye Jante hua, ki teri manzil mein nahi koi aur hai.

Tere phiche baghte-baghte thak Jau,
ya Tum tham jao mere liye,
yehi dua mangta hai Khudha se,
teri manzil na sahi, tera rasta to ban jaye.

Manzil agar tu ho to tere vaste kayee raste banayenge hum,
dur chahe kitni bhi ho Tum, hum teri chah mein fasle kum karjayenge,
Mano-ya-Mano, markar bhi zinda reh jayenge,
tere dil mein jagah mile-na-mile,
teri sanse bankar teri dhadkano mein basjayenge,
marte-marte bhi tere dil mein apna ek mukam banayenge.

Chalte-Chalte bikhar sa gaya huin,
Saihra bandne ki umid mein, na-umid sa ho gaya huin,
Konsa rang lagao tujhe,
Kaise apna banau tujhe,
yehi samaj na paya kabhi,
darte-darte tere karib to aagaya huin mein,
Per teri "ha" sunnane ke intazar mein,
Kahi tasvir na banjau mein,

Mar bhi jau to gam nahi,
ek phool har roj pyar se chada dena meri tasvir per,
waqt na mile phool todne ke liye,
to thoda sa lal rang laga dena, meri tasvir per.


Happy rangpanchmi...
Love is a color that never fades,
friendship is a color that never turns amber,
life is always green, unless death stops you with red.